The reason why we struggle so much with sexual desires is mainly because of respect. Its sad to say that females and males have lost their respect for their own bodies. This is the reason why we all struggle with sex. Girls appearing on tv and portraying sex as something normal, wearing skimpy dressing and doing sexy dances. Guys singing about sex as if it was somethign normal. The Lord has meant our bodies for good and respect as quoted from Vincent. If you dun get what i mean, this is how it is. Do you ever wonder why we dun have sexual feelings for our biological mothers and sisters? It is because we hold respect for them that thinking about it is a form of ultimate disrespect. Struggling with sex? learn to respect the opposite sex body. Does eating some food defile your body? This is what we christians believe for it came from our Lord almighty! Mark 7: 18 - " Don't you understand either? Can't you see that what you eat don't defile you? Food does'nt come in contact with your heart, but only passes through the stomach then comes out again." diarrheao 9 times in 1 day. I hate shitting. Its such a big turn off. argh!