There is a difference between having wisdom and being wise. having wisdom is one thing. Putting wisdom to use is being wise. Get the picture? That this is a greatest barrier of smart people. That they may gain all the knowledge of the world but they have closed up their ears to wisdom. They study all day in hopes of getting good results but they forget that it is wisdom that gets them far in life. Not results. The Lord knew exactly what it would take to make us learn. And he knew that it takes mistakes for us to learn. That is why he came to die for us to take away the condemnation of our mistakes so that when mistakes come, his forgiveness is there so that we can learn and not stand in condemnation. This is our Lord, the one whom he has set his image in our minds. I love both my mei mei too much to lose them. I rather i loosen the relationship with both of them to save this relation than cancel all lines and lose both of them. Some say leaders are perfect people. Know this that no leader in the world are perfect. No matter how experienced they are. There is a difference however. And this is the difference. That leaders are just as imperfect as anyone of us, but they handle imperfections with more wisdom and more wisely. Get the difference?