Saturday, December 29, 2007
So i always say to girls. Dress properly when you go to church. Do not bring temptation into church. But they say, "Its a very hot weather, so i dress more skimpily so it wun be so hot." Sure it is fine to dress more skimpily due to hot weather. There is nothing wrong to that. But if because of ur skimpy dressing that you bring temptation to man den i strongly urge you girls to dress more properly. To some it may have been done in ignorance. But to some how terrible it is when they do it when they know it would bring temptation to men. Paul said that it is alright to eat food sacrificed to idols, but if eating food sacrificed to idols will cause others to stumble, then it would be better not to eat of that food.
But so you say, its just bringing temptation to men, it doesn't do me any bad. But i say this to you, unless you wanna be in the minds of guys who masturbate to your image every night then so be it. Unless you want to bring down people's respect for you then so be it. Do you not know that girls who dress skimpily in the minds of guys they are of no value?
Guys, so you say that masturbation helps you bring down your sexual urge. It helps you to stop thinking of sex. Someone even told me that he masturbates before doing quiet time each night so that he can concentrate on the bible without sexual thoughts. But i say this to you, unless you quit masturbating you will never be able to control your sexual urge. I can be assured to say that until you quit masturbation, your sexual urge will just keep going up until you lose control of yourselves. Until the day you make a girl pregnant then do you realise how the devil has been playing with your thoughts. I praise the Lord for saving and keeping me from getting girls pregnant and how he has kept me a virgin. Amen.
So my classmate once asked me if i masturbate, and when i said i do not masturbate all of them looked at me with shock. Why are they shocked? Coz they believe that all guys are not able to stop masturbation and it is something that nobody can help with. But i say this to you with a clear conscience, that it is possible to quit masturbation. I am saying this to guys who are reading this entry who are enslave to masturbation. IT IS POSSIBLE TO QUIT MASTURBATION. I understand this is a highly sensitive topic, but even so i will not stop encouraging readers that this masturbation that we always choose to hide, is something that can be conquered. But i say this again, rather than saying it can be conquered, i'd add to say that IT MUST be conquered. In many cases of premarital sex, i highly believe that at least 85% of the guys involved have masturbation issues.
How can then i quit masturbation? So i say this to you, i can give you many steps and many stepping stones as guide. But this i say to you, unless you have a love for God you can never quit masturbation. No matter how many solutions i give you, if you do not have the love of God then all is to waste.
So i say this to you as someone who do not masturbate. That quitting masturbation isn't an easy path. It is a road filled with broken glass bottles ready to pierce your feet when you choose this path. Many who started walking this path ended in giving up. But i assure you that once you have quit masturbation, it is a life of great change and intimacy with God. Many things that once seemed foreign to you will be made so clear. Your relationship with God will be so much stronger and so will be your self control. But i will not emphasis too much, i rather hope that you experience it for yourselves. But i say this to you, it is a path that it filled with pain, but it will definitely be a path you will never regret taking.
11:42 PM
