Thursday, September 04, 2008
What are friends actually? Recently i have alot of girl-friends having fights with their own girl-friends. I really dun get why this is happening. I personally have alot of close guy-friends. I would just use Kai. Now the Kai im talking about is Hong Kai. I have alot of friends called Kai. So yea. Anw! Kai has been a friend of mine since pri 1 but we really got to know each other since sec 1. But one thing about our friendship is that we are close, but we never ever fought once. Never once we had to scream at each other. Why? We both know our own limitations.
Okay! So i'll just put it this way. We both give each other space. What i do with my life, how many girls i have, whatever friends i have, Whatever problem i get into, its none of his problem. He would always say this to me, "Its your own life, do whatever you deem best". We both know we are friends, not counsellors or parents to each other. We dun try to dig into each other personal life. In a way, we both have the habit of taking things easy. We dun judge each other by what we do. We just be a good friend. Thats all. Personally, if i were to take everything so personal, i would have fought with Kai many times. Coz we both always do stupid things.
I would say i have friends that are opposite of Kai. They own friends. They think that they control their own friends. Like for example, who my gf is, who i talk to, who i go out with, what type of friends i have, what i do on msn, it all seems to be like their problem. They behave like its going to kill them if i do that kind of things. My own private matters seem to be their business. My mum would always warn me, never be too close to a friend. You will lose them. I finally understood what she meant. I guess we can be good friends, but we arent parents. Afterall, even my parents dunno what i do on friendster -_-"
Oh wells, been ging out till very late at night nowadays. Mum getting dumb le. haha. Reached home at 1am last night. Mom called only once. LOL!! Went out with Shi min, edwin, edmund, Zhi jun, Vivien and Jueen. Went to watch Wall-e. Quite nice sia the movie. Got some humourous parts. haha. After finsihing the movie went to macdonald's at woodlands tos alck dere. Talk cock. Den after slack a while outside at the mrt station there. Took my last train home den came home and watch Mummy 3. Freaking idiotic movie. damn,,,
*edits*
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