Sunday, September 14, 2008
Sometimes people ask whats love. I told Aijie today when we went out. We were walking and i told her what type of guy actually truly loves her. Nowadays teenage relations are built on crush and infatuation. I understand totally what it feels like. But most of it are sadly,.. selfish. They focus mainly on what they want from their partners. Say, this girl goes out with her usual clique, the clique has good looking guys. The bf feels insecure, stops gf from going out and starts being controlling on the girl. Now, this bf is actually thinking bout? himself! He doesnt want to lose his gf to some other guy in her clique. But what is actually true love?I would define it from the way my parents love me. They have true love for me. And true love never dies people =] To prepare for Aijie's bday gifts and preparations, i had to fork out 70 dollars first. But i was seriously broke! My mother didnt have money with her too. But the next day i saw 70 dollars on my table. And i found out my mother dug out the last of her money so that i could buy the stuffs dat i need. She was all along thinking about me in her heart. She never thought about herself. How she would spend the rest of teh week without her money. This is true love. True love never thinks about oneself and is not selfish. Instead, true love thinks about the OTHER party as to how to make the one he/she loves happy.Do you get what i mean people? So lets look back at the old scenario. Girl wants to go out with her usual clique but guy feels insecure. If the guy truly loved her, he would think about, "I know my gf is going to enjoy herself if she went out with her frens". But if it was selfish love, he would have thought " Hey, what if my gf falls for another guy? wouldnt she ditch me and I'LL be heartbroken??".Right now, i do have someone whom i really really like alot. What would i do about it? I used to tell people that i couldnt find a girl of my type. Maybe i shud start telling people that i still havent found a girl who thinks of me a the greatest bf on earth. I really do want the girl with me to be happy. I really do want communication and unselfish love in a relationship. I really do want the girl to think shes the most lucky girl on earth.Anw! Shi min asked me about my previous entries on what true friends really are. That they do not interfere in each others life. Notice that i used the word, "interfere"? Shi min da jie, the logic behind me and Hong kai's friendship is very very simple. We will help one another. But we do not interfere. Simple analogy, the doctor will only perform his duties on a patient IF only the patient asks for his help. If the doctor rushes in and demand to analyse his patient for any sickness when hes not needed, isnt that madness in itself? We help our friends only when our help is needed. We do not demand that we must know everything about our frens life and do it according to our own standards. Do you understand what i mean? And one more thing, the patient has the right to choose their doctors too. If you get what i meant yeah? ; )Anw! Went out these few days. Fri went out with Shi min, Ying ping, vivien, edmund, ah sam and sock cheng. Went to orchard to find Aijie de bday present. End up cannot find. So decided to use ang bao? haha. After meeting them le i went to find Zenn and kai hong. Den went to find jia hui at her shop at the cathay. They went for supper but i went my way. Went to find my parents for supper at changi airport. I ate popeye's chicken! They ate indian food! hahahah! Took a few dumb photos. haha. Shall upload some of the dumb pics here. Oh yea, we played with ying ping de phone too! haha. Check out the pics! =]
Ying ping tried on my bag! haha.
These are the photos taken with my family! =]
yeaps yeaps.And anw! Im starting to think friendster is the main reason why people think of me as a flirt le. Honestly i dun even know most of the girls who added me. Seriously, i think im not going to touch friendster so much le i guess. geees. People say i talk to alot of girls seeing my friendster. I look at my hp inbox, msn. Only those few girls who are close to me are the ones who are actually talking to me. And i can even count the number of girls i actually am close to with my own fingers. bleahs. life...Anw!! Im tired siaaaaaaaa. Time to sleep. sorry for long post people. nites!! =]
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